BE with WHO deserves YOU

Todays topic is a little on the touchy side, but I have strong feelings about it that I am dying to share. Okay friends, so if he/she is your “dream” person, will they degrade you, will they talk you down, will they make you feel small in this giant world? IF they do even the slightest of one of these things its time to put that person down and FOCUS on yourself. Believe it or not you WILL become weak by listening to their degrading words and terrible views of your life. But guess what, you deserve to be happy and if that makes your significant other unhappy. LEAVE. Your happiness is VERY important, and if you give someone the power to control your happiness, you will never smile again. The truth hurts, I will agree, but its time we get what WE deserve. I believe there is a special someone out there for each and every one of you, finding them may not be easy but it sure will be worth the wait. So, my advice is to dodge all negativity and focus more on yourself, your career, and even better yet your HAPPINESS. I know it won’t be easy and you may be sad for a while but life goes on with or without a negative burden on your shoulders. So release all the negative bull shit and inhale all the positive vibes you are surrounded by.

“Sometimes you have to do what’s best for you and your life, not what’s best for everyone else”

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-peace out bad vibes-

xoxo laur

No money, No problem

Don’t have enough money to do the things you’ve always dreamed of? WHO told you that, and WHY did you belive it. You my friend have all the power in the world with or without money. Money is just an object. They print it everyday. Sure money can buy lots of things (don’t get me wrong) but you don’t need it do what you love. For instance if your passion is traveling do it the SMART way. Stop saving all year round to take a week vacation. That isn’t enough if you have a strong passion for traveling and living the wanderlust life. (well for me it isn’t at least lol) So instead of saving a few thousand for a nice vacation I like to take small vacations all year round. For instant I have probably spend 2,000 on traveling this year and I have been to Wisconsin 3 time (each a different part), Punta Cana, and Tennessee! I plan on taking another vacay soon. I can NEVER vacay too much lol. Okay, so now its time for you to fulfill your dreams of doing things that are too “expensive”. STOP saving all your money and wasting your life. Do it while your young and you have money. Remember we aren’t promised tomorrow so why save your money for it just to go to waste. GO DO WHAT YOU LOVE. TREAT YOURSELF. I am not telling you saving money is not a good idea but never treating yourself is just cruel. WE as humans work really hard for our money and deserve to be HAPPY. So I hope all of you go out and do something crazy this weekend (I’ll be waiting to hear stories lol).

“Money is numbers and numbers never end. If it takes money to be happy, your search for happiness will never end.”

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xoxo laur

 

BIG PREMIERE

GUESS WHAT! I have been hiding a BIG secret about my life. I am breaking my way into the acting industry. EKKKK, I will be walking the Red Carpet Saturday, July 29th starting at 5 p.m. OMG! I have been patiently waiting to share this part of my life with you guys! I have been in musical all throughout my high school career and decided to attend multiple different acting classes outside of my work in school! I LOVE IT! I can’t wait to see where my future will take me. (ps that’s why I’m moving to cali lol). I will keep you guys updated when our first episode will be released. Catch me on the upcoming TV series, Fate Forthcoming. Give us a like on Facebook and come out to our premiere. ITS FREE! It will be held at the patio theatre in Chicago, IL.

“you will get there, but only if you KEEP going”

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xoxo laur

HAVE SOME MANNERS PEOPLE

I am guessing by the title you can probably guess what todays topic is going to be about (lol) MANNERS. From my perspective I would just like to point out how much our generation has changed and how rude people have become. As a teen in this generation I find it very appalling to see kids my age act with such disrespect towards elders or anyone for that matter. Lets be honest, it doesn’t take that much effort to be respectful of others. When you don’t have something nice to say SIMPLY don’t say anything at all. It breaks my heart seeing this generation being forced to saying the simplest things like “please” or “thank you”. PEOPLE these are common manners, you should be using these words in your daily lives. Someone shouldn’t have to remind you to say them. You as a grown teen should know some respect. I am not only saying it is only the childs fault because it isn’t, it is just as much of the parents fault for failing to teach common manners. BUT COME ON. Rather you learned these words or not its time to start. Grow up and have some respect. Treat people the way you would want to be treated and if they don’t respect that simply move on, don’t dwell on something so small, life goes on.

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The BIG Move

So guys I have some very exciting news! I plan on packing my backs and hitting the road this December or early January. TO CALIFORNIA! How am I going to pick up and move that fast. Well here’s how its gonna go. I am going to start paying $800 dollars into rent every month (yes that is a lot and leaves me with little) BUT if I want to be gone by then it must happen. SAVING is key my friends. Start with a small fund like collecting all your change. Start labeling your money to go to certain things for example my change will be going into my gas tank! Keep motivated to move, my motivation comes from the countdown I have in my room. 149 DAYS! Another huge thing you must do is to STAY ON TOP OF THINGS. You must keep tract of your money and how much you personally need to save. I think if you are really anxious to move you MUST take at least 2 to 3 thousand, just so you have money to depend on before you start your job. ALSO, if you plan on moving into a money hungry state (like California) you must SAVE, SAVE, SAVE. I can’t stress that enough. Also getting the essentials you will need move is a must. Ask your self these questions.

  1. Will your car make the move?
  2. How much money do you have saved already?
  3. What do you need to buy for your house/apartment?
  4. Did you find a job there yet?
  5. Have you looked up housing?
  6. How will you move your things?

Once you ask your self those questions and you have an answer (you don’t need to know them right away but the sooner the better) you will need to start a timeline of how your move will go because trust me TIME FLIES and without a timeline of when things should be done you might fall off track and miss the moving date! (that’s the last thing I want lol) So keep your self motivated and make small movements everyday to get yourself closer to your move date! One last tip, setting your move date for an earlier date is A LOT better than having a later one that will leave you no bumper time to make error. For example my move date is December 8th although I might not get moved in until January 8th, I gave myself a month for error time (just incase).

Okay guys, BEST OF LUCK TO YOU ALL ON YOUR MOVES! I hope my tips and tricks helped. I will be keeping you guys updated! I would love to hear your guys plan on a move in the near future!

“Adventure must start with running away from home”

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xoxo laur

Welcome Back

Hola, welcome back to my page. I apologize I haven’t posted in a few days I was a little busy enjoying my birthday weekend! (and my data isn’t working) BELIVE ME I WAS HAVING BLOG WITHDRAWALS. But I wanted to introduce you guys to “Top Golf”! Not gonna lie, I was a little upset my boyfriend decided to take me golfing on my birthday (lol) BUT little did I know I could have so much fun. Top golf is a great place to go and hang out with your friends with little to no golf experience needed! (ps all the clubs and golf balls are provided) They give you a “bay” (table and chairs with a golf patch)! You than golf from the top story of the building, hence the name “Top Golf” Once you hit a ball and it goes into a hole there is a screen in which automatically tracks your points. Let me tell you this. I am not one to golf, but I HIGHLY recommend everyone trying it out! Although the course lights up at night (which makes it more expensive) you could truly enjoy it at any hour of the day!

Here are some pictures from my birthday!

xoxo laur